Do you believe in communication with unborn babies? Some people think that mothers can communicate with their babies after delivery. However, I strongly believe that we can communicate with unborn babies (foetus) when they are in the wombs. I shall share with you about my experience.
3Cs Principles of Communication with unborn babies
1. Conviction
The most important thing is the strong belief in communication with the unborn babies. When you believe strongly in communication, you will try your best to find ways to reach the unborn babies. However, when you are not certain with your belief, you may miss the opportunity to communicate with the foetus.
2. Commitment
Commitment is to put your belief into action. You need to have a desire to communicate and put it into practice. With daily practice, you will be able to communicate with the foetus. Through dialogue, mediation, music, imagination, tapping, sending positive and loving message and so on, we can communicate with the unborn babies. For example, you can get feedback from foetus by asking foetus to kick one time to indicate yes, and two times to indicate no. You need to practice it daily with the foetus until it becomes a language of communication.
3. Care
The pregnant women need to take care of their own emotional and nutritional needs. The more stable emotion of the mother, the more positive energy (love) will be flowed to the unborn baby. It helps to nourish the baby emotionally, mentally and physically. The happy and healthy mother will give birth to a happy and healthy baby.
Personal Experience
I communicated with my older son when he was a 7 months old feotus. A year ago, he told me that it was very dark (no light) inside and he was playing with the water inside my womb. He could listen to the sound, but it was not very clear. Based on the feedback from my older son, I started to believe strongly about prenatal communication. The first pregnancy was very smooth.
On the contrary, my second pregnancy was very complicated. I had �threaten abortion� due to detachment of water bag when I was pregnant with my 7 weeks� old feotus. I had internal bleeding and was hospitalized for treatment and observation. I was very scared and worried. I hoped that my feotus and I would be fine. I was lost and helpless. My mother asked me to try to talk to my feotus and asked his help for recovery. Then, I lied down on bed and listened to music and started to imagine that the blood clots were absorbed by the womb and the feotus could heal himself. Two weeks later, miracle happened. (Show the pictures of scan for comparison). The blood clots disappeared. It showed the healing power of our mind.
However, I had bleeding again during 15 weeks of pregnancy due to low lying of placenta. I was worried about the situation. I read book about the risk of low placenta, it might lead to premature baby. I was even more scared after reading. Later, my doctor advised me to take rest at home. She hoped that my placenta would be at correct positioning by 28 weeks of pregnancy. Therefore, I applied no paid leave for 4 months to rest at home. I used this opportunity to take care of my elder son and develop the bond with my unborn baby. My mother said to me over the international phone call (IDD), �You can speak to the baby and ask him to position himself correctly. I believe it work.� Then, I said to my unborn baby, �I love you and I trust you that you can return back to the normal position�. At 22 weeks, miracle happened again. My baby was back to normal positioning. Thanks for the valuable advice from my mother. I thought everything should be fine.
By 25 weeks, I was diagnosed with gestational diabetic (diabetic during pregnancy). To my surprised, I could not believe it because I did not take sweet things or outside food. It was another blow for me. I was very restless and worried. Doctor said that I might have a higher chance to give birth to a diabetic baby. Therefore, I needed to control my diet closely and monitor the sugar level. Can you imagine 6 times finger pricks per day? I was so scared to do it. I was sad when the blood cannot come out after pricking. At that moment, I was studying the prenatal education from my teacher, May Ng, who gave me support and emotional assurance. May e-mailed to her teacher, Pamela to ask for help. I received the wonderful, loving and assurance message from Pamela. My teachers, mother and husband supported me. I made a decision to take charge of my life and my baby�s life again. I closely monitor my diet and sugar level. I treated the pain as an experience to share with children with diabetic and I can understand them. My teacher told me to mediate and communicate with the foetus. Then, I whispered or use my heart to talk to him, �Baby, you are very strong and healthy and free from diabetic.� (Whisper to baby) I told my baby this loving message everyday while listening to relaxing music. Finally, my baby was free from diabetic. It is a blessing for him. I wanted to express my gratitude to my teacher, May and Pamela.
By 39 weeks, my foetus wanted to come out. I used the TENS (pain releasing machine) and Entonox gas to reduce my labour pain. When it was so painful, I closed my eyes and visualized the image of my baby (Picture of image). It helped me to reduce the pain. When I sensed that the baby was about to come out, I asked the nurse to call doctor. I told my baby, � You shall come out fast with a few push. I am waiting to meet up with you.� Surprisingly, the doctor came and my baby was out with a few push (a few minutes� time). The name of my second son isFong Zhi Heng, it means wisdom and perseverance. With perseverance and determination, my son can meet up with me finally.
I was so pleased that I totally forgot that my placenta was still inside the womb. I bled a lot. Due to breathing a lot of gas, I felt unconscious for a period of time. Suddenly I was back to the birthing room. Then, doctor called me,�Wai Chong, are you O.K.?� I saw the ceiling of the room and told my doctor, � I was back�. Luckily, the doctor helped me to expel the placenta within 45 minutes. If there had been a delay of another 15 minutes, I would have bled to death. Thanks for the doctor to save my life. Life is so precious that I cannot afford to lose. I learn to appreciate and cherish life.
Conclusion
Strongly believe in yourself and trust that you can do it. Be grateful to the people surrounding and supporting us. With conviction, commitment and care with unborn babies, you can communicate and reach out to the unborn babies at the earliest stage. It helps to build up the bond with the baby. The sending of loving and positive message makes a difference to the life of unborn babies.
(From Connecting With your Unborn Baby E-Book by W.C. Mak)
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